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Give Your Stuff Away Day

Free stuff will be available in neighborhoods all over America on May 15, 2010. It’s an event Mike Morone is hoping to establish world-wide twice annually. The event could eventually help millions, while diminishing landfills, reducing clutter, and boosting the economy.

Many of us own valuable stuff we just don’t want anymore. But instead of giving it away or selling it, we allow it to clutter our households and businesses. Billions of great items are just wasting away, taking up space.

Wouldn’t it be cool if we could magically shift ownership of this stuff, in one weekend, coast to coast, with zero effort, little time, and at no cost?

Cool happens on May 15, 2010. It’s called Give Your Stuff Away Day and it will work (almost) like magic, as long as we promote the idea and follow common sense procedures.

On May 15, bring your valuable, but unwanted stuff to your curb. Some guidelines – no trash, recyclables, illegal or dangerous items. No food, drugs, chemicals, or weapons. Just safe, valuable items we would like to donate. Then watch the fun – or better yet, take a walk and find some free stuff you can use.

A few warnings: Give Your Stuff Away Day can get a bit messy, but it’s worth it. Trash hauling expenses could spike that week. But in the long run, fewer items in landfills equate to lower hauling expenses.

Local governments won’t like it – until they understand how beneficial it can be. Last month, Connecticut Governor M. Jodi Rell became the first elected official to understand that. Read about it here, and please call Mike Morone if you would like to discuss this event.

5 Childhood Movies To Share With Your Kids

Brand new movies are great! It’s so much fun standing in line at the theater, breathing in the buttery popcorn smell, giddy with anticipation when a new movie is released.

My children love watching the latest and greatest movies, but I just grin when I hear my children singing the songs I used to sing as a kid – “Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious” or “Tomorrow”. Hearing their little off-key renditions is the best music to my ears.

Have you introduced your children to the movies you enjoyed when you were younger?

Swiss Family Robinson (1960) Buy it on DVD: Swiss Family Robinson

The Robinson family gets shipwrecked near an island. With hard work and togetherness, they build a majestic tree house. They are faced with many trials – wild animals, weather, and pirates, but their ingenuity carries them through. Great family values!

The Parent Trap (1961) Buy it on DVD: The Parent Trap

Twin daughters are raised not knowing about each other, each living with one parent. They unexpectedly bump into each other at summer camp, put two and two together, and work out a scheme to get their parents back together again. This movie is just plain good fun.

Mary Poppins (1964) Buy it on DVD: Mary Poppins

Mr. and Mrs. Banks are both so preoccupied with their own interests that their children, Jane and Michael are unhappy. When the magical nanny, Mary Poppins enters their lives, she brings the family closer. Between the penguin scene, the chimney sweep dance, and the magic, your children will be entranced.

The Sound of Music (1965) Buy it on DVD: The Sound of Music
The hills are alive with the sound of music. Your home will be alive with the sound of music once your kids watch this one.

Annie (1982) Buy it on DVD: Annie
Oh, how we love Annie! The music, the dancing, the wealthy Mr. Warbucks, and a happy ending. It doesn’t get much better than that!

These five movies are a must in every family library. Share the memories, and sing the tunes. It’s ok if you’re a little off-key. I won’t tell.

Don’t miss Show Kids The Fun – a fun site to inspire parents to keep the lines of communication open with their children, making memories that last a lifetime.

Move Over Dads, Toys Are For Moms This Year!

Mother’s Day is a treasured holiday that each year is celebrated with an overabundance of flowers, brunch reservations, and sappy cards intended to give moms across the nation a little well-deserved recognition. But today’s moms are drastically different than the pearl necklace and high-heel wearing housewives of yesteryear. Women have careers to juggle while simultaneously catering to their families and upholding a decent social life. Traditional gender roles are being challenged on a daily basis with the frequency of single moms, stay-at-home-dads, and the complex uniqueness of the modern family. As meaningful as traditions can be, the modern mom’s idea of a day devoted to her has changed from what it was twenty years ago.

So, it’s time to catch up with the trends and give Mother’s Day a renewed jolt. Think about your mom’s unique interests and try something unusual. Here are a few ideas that have become high demand activities of the modern woman. [Read more...]

Schmoozins Joins Mom’s Talk Network

Mom’s Talk Network is pleased to welcome the Schmoozins blog into their small but growing network of Mom Blogs.

Future plans include publishing mom focused product and website reviews as well as implementing a recognition award for products created by or for moms.

If you’d like to see your product or site featured here for moms to find, just leave a comment and we’ll be in touch.

Raising Children With Positive Self-Esteem

Self-esteem is important throughout life, but the foundation is laid down in the early years. It’s our job as parents to help our children build self-esteem. We may do and say things that are bad for our kids’ self-esteem without even realizing it. It is important to make a conscious effort to help them develop and maintain a positive opinion about themselves. For many, how they feel while growing up will stick with them forever whether we know it or not.

Listening to Your Child

One thing that parents often overlook is the fact that children need us to listen to what they have to say. When we don’t, they feel unworthy of our attention. And that can put a damper on their self-esteem.

Making it a point to listen fully to what your child has to say will let him know that you value his stories and opinions. Sometimes we just don’t have the time to listen at the very moment they want to talk, but it’s important to let them know that it’s not because we don’t want to. Set a time to sit down and talk if necessary, and stick with it.

When they are in the mood to chat, try and put everything down and give them your attention. I’ve been guilty of having my nose in the computer answering emails while they are talking. This isn’t setting the tone I want for a conversation and as they get more into their teen years I have to prove that I want them to continue to talk to me. I literally got to practice what I preached as I was typing this article.

When Your Child Misbehaves

When children are misbehaving, it is easy to forget about keeping their self-esteem intact. But it is very important to make the distinction between bad behavior and a bad child.

By describing the specific behavior as bad rather than telling your child that he himself is bad, you can let him know that it is not him as a person that you disapprove of. It is his actions. Children who feel that their parents disapprove of them are not only more likely to develop low self-esteem, they also tend to misbehave more.

Give the Right Kinds of Compliments

Complementing your child when he does well is important, because it reinforces both self-esteem and good behavior. But even complements can sometimes do damage. Backhanded complements do nothing but cause hurt feelings. Try to refrain from alluding to negative things your child has done when giving complements. You can accomplish much more by keeping praise completely positive.

It’s also important not to overdo the praise. While it is great to recognize the good things your child does, it is possible to put too much pressure on him. Being specific with your praise, such as telling your child you are proud of him for bringing his math grade up from a C to an A, accomplishes more than telling him that he is the smartest kid in the class or the world.

For older kids, make sure that you aren’t giving them a compliment and then telling them how they could have improved. If you have a critique then save it for a couple of hours after you give the compliment or even wait for the next day. Telling them how they could have improved as you are complimenting them can leave to feelings of inadequacy and that nothing they do is good enough.

It is important to start building a child’s self-esteem at a young age and keep nurturing it. Doing so will encourage him to be the best that he can be and to resist peer pressure. By listening to our children and keeping their self-esteem in mind at all times, we can raise them to be happy, confident people.

Avoid the Beach Rush This Spring Break

Say “spring break” and thoughts of college kids partying on the beach come to mind. But spring break isn’t just for college students, your kids are off school as well. It’s a great time for family vacations.

Spring break isn’t just about going to the beach, either. I think the reason we think of the beach first is because we’re so excited that summer is finally on it’s way.  It’s a fun option, but if the kids’ spring break falls at the same time as the colleges’, the beach will probably be quite crowded and chaotic. There are lots of other, less stressful options for families. The following are a few ideas:

Amusement Parks

Spring break is a great time to hit the amusement parks. It’s not as hot as it is in the summer, and it probably won’t be nearly as crowded. Most amusement parks have fun activities for kids of all ages as well as adults, so it will be an experience that the whole family can enjoy.

Some amusement parks have different hours during the spring than in the summer, so be sure to check ahead of time. You might also be able to find coupons that will save you money since it’s not traditionally a busy time of year.

Going Camping

Taking a trip to the wilderness is a fun spring break activity. While it may still be a bit too chilly at night to “rough it” in a tent, you could take a camper or RV. Renting a cabin is also an option in many parks.

Planning activities in advance will help prevent boredom for the kids. It’s also nice to touch base with civilization a time or two during your trip. Going out to eat or to a movie mid-week will provide a nice change of pace.  Don’t forget to bring the card and board games.

Historical Destinations

Taking a trip to an historical destination is an educational spring break option. This could entail anything from a day trip to some nearby historical places to a week-long stay in city that is rich with history, such as Washington, D.C.

If you’re planning a long trip, it’s wise to make sure that the place where you’re going has plenty of things to keep your family occupied. If you’re concerned about running out of things to do and see, consider visiting two or three different places. The kids won’t mind if you have to stop by an amusement park along the way.

With everyone heading south for the hot weather, look at the northern locations.  Typically the sun is still out and warm, but you can travel the city without the fear of sunburn, crowds and the humid weather that will hit in the summer.

The BRIDGECruises

Cruises allow vacationers to visit several destinations on one trip, usually at an affordable price. There are lots of kid-friendly cruise options for families. Some cruise packages are geared toward families with children in specific age ranges, but there are also lots of cruises that offer something for everyone.

Most ships offer a variety of onboard and excursion activities. Many also offer babysitting for younger children while Mom and Dad participate in adult activities. Some of the newer ships offer family suites.

Spring break is a great time for family vacations. But there’s no rule saying that you have to go to the beach. Research other places that make a more mellow spring break destination for families.

Toxic Oven Cleaners

Necessity breeds change. As a family we’ve been doing a lot of changes with products we use. Trying to go more green and even working on using a few homemade cleaners.  Oven cleaning is not something I had changed.

Honestly, I rarely clean the oven. I don’t even know how old the cleaner was in my cabinet nor can I remember the last time I did clean the oven.  But we’ve been on a really good spring cleaning rampage and the oven ended up next in line.

I read the directions and worried about it leaking out with my little dogs around. Followed directions and sprayed the oven, careful not to get on elements or their connections. Finished that, put the paper towels in the door and shut it. I’d even been good and took out all my lids and the broiler pan from the drawer below.

Washed my hands to make sure any cleaner I did have on it was off and that’s when I could feel it.  The cleaner had been on my finger the whole time I’d been spraying. Since I was just spraying it, I hadn’t put gloves on.  If you’ve ever gotten a slight chemical burn then you probably know the signs. I won’t say exactly why I instantly knew because I know not everyone is used to hearing horror stories like I am. But then it started blistering up and you could see the indent of the spray nozzle. Crud, I’m glad hubby is home from work so we can keep an eye on it. Hospital trip wasn’t necessary, but it sure scared me.

Needless to say the cleaner has been tossed out. I’ve always hated using something that says right on the bottle it’s horribly toxic. It’s a big reason why I have never been good about cleaning the oven. Now I am researching other options.

I’ll be looking at some cleaners to purchase and homemade ideas. It was also recommended to use the steam cleaner. I sadly forgot that we have the Shark Portable Steamer.  I haven’t used it yet so it was easy to forget about. I think that is what I will try the next time since it won’t require me making an addiction purchase.  We’ll have to see how dirty the oven is next time I clean it, my teen is into cooking and baking right now.

My lesson learned is that I can’t forget to listen to my inner mom voice. I was nervous about using the cleaner and I should have gone with my instinct and found a different way to clean the oven to begin with. Nothing should be used in the house that says “no contact with skin”.

Must-Have Spring Fashions for Teens and Mom

MeganParents of teenagers know how important fashion is to them. Each teen has his or her own individual style and rules of the house they need to stick to. Some love to follow the latest trends, while others have a fashion sense all their own. If you are lucky enough to be a similar size as your teen then you can join in the fun new trends. Here are some of the hottest fashion trends for women this spring:

Jump Suits and Play Suits

Oh boy, an 80′s trend that has returned. I can’t remember how many one piece short suits I had. Madonna had a big influence on my friends and I wearing the jump suits the first time. Typically in a cropped pant and then when Summer hit they hit in shorts.

Just about every look in the suits is back, except the denim overalls. This was reported to be the only look that is not in every designers line. You can go with classic lines, flowing fabrics, or even sporty hoodies.

You can’t have the 80′s styles without the big bows in your hair. These are a less expensive upgrade for your fashion this season.

Sheer Fabrics

Sheer fabrics are always a hit for Spring and Summer. It’s the season for soft flowing garments that aren’t as binding and warm and time to bare more skin.

Sheer jackets or button-up shirts in vivid prints look great with coordinating solid-colored tank tops. Scarves are also a hit this spring, and there are lots of lovely sheer ones to choose from. Sheer scarves also work as a cute belt in those hot pants that are back in style.

Metallics

Silver, gold and bronze go tribal and sci-fi. Not together I hope, although if you get it to work please send a picture ;) Metal plating and boxy cut tops. Sci-fi is probably getting it’s motivation from the odd costume choices you can see Lady Gaga wearing. I love her style and no fear of wearing what she wants, but I have to say that here in Washington it would look out of place unless hitting the club.

Maybe try to incorporate some funky belts and necklaces into your wardrobe. Always an easy way to spice up your clothes and less money spent on a quick trend.

Floral Prints

The femininity of floral prints is often seen in the spring. Large and mid-sized floral prints are all the rage for both teens and adults this season. The difference being that the floral pants and shorts are big again. I say again because I grew up in the 80′s and can remember the last time they were a major trend.

Floral prints also provide a great way to introduce color without wearing it from head to toe. White or neutral backgrounds are unobtrusive, yet when you add some brightly colored flowers to them, it really makes them pop. No more boring bottoms this season, pep it up with florals and prints.

New Year's Resolution You Can Keep

New Year’s resolutions are made every year by millions of people. Unfortunately, many if not most of them are never completed. If you plan to make a resolution, you may want to set a New Year goal that is not beyond your reach.

Your ultimate New Year’s resolution may be to learn a new language or how to dance all forms of ballroom dance. However, an unreasonable goal is to assume you could do either of those in a short period of time. Some goals are possible within a month, such as losing five pounds, but learning how to speak fluent Chinese in that amount of time absolutely is not.

It is important for us to plan for the future so we’re not aimlessly wandering through life. Sometimes setting long-range goals can be overwhelming because they’re so far out in the future that we doubt if we’ll ever meet them. If there aren’t intermediate goals along the way to your ultimate goal, it will be too easy for you to lose focus and give up.

Instead of having just the one, long-range goal, consider having small goals that you can work on – even on a daily basis. This will help you by allowing you to feel a sense of accomplishment when you meet one of the smaller goals, as well as letting you know you’re on the right track to reach your goal.

How do you break down one big goal into several smaller goals? That all depends upon what your goal is. You can choose best what you need to do each day to help keep you on track. Don’t let your gaze go too far down the trail that you have laid out for yourself. If you don’t stay focused on the day at hand, you might miss something wonderful along the way.

Remember that reaching a goal is much like going on a journey. If you’re too focused on the destination, you’ll miss the beauty along the way. You can stop along the way and smell the roses rather than speeding along the path you’re on and missing them entirely. By setting smaller goals that you can reach, you’ll be moving toward your goal and be much more likely to actually reach it.

Don’t give up if things don’t work out exactly like you’ve planned. Things in life happen that may keep you from reaching a small goal in the time you had hoped. When things settle back down you can pick up where you left off. It may take longer to reach your goal than you wanted, but that’s no reason to give up.

Give yourself a reward when you’ve reached a smaller goal, rather than waiting to complete the large goal. Knowing you’ll have a small reward when you have met a goal may be the impetus you need to keep going when you feel discouraged.

When you have a goal in mind, consider the steps you can take. Set New Year’s goals that are not beyond your reach. Reward yourself when you’ve reached a small goal and then keep going to the next one.

Ten Drink Ideas the Whole Family Will Love This New Year's Eve

New Year’s Eve brings to mind glasses of champagne clinking together as the clock strikes midnight. While champagne is fine for adults, it isn’t appropriate for everyone. Here are ten drink ideas the whole family will love this New Year’s Eve.

1. For those who want the sensation of champagne, you should be able to find sparkling grape juice at nearly every grocery or discount food store. You can also make your own by combining white grape juice with ginger ale.

2. If you’re having a Hawaiian or luau themed party, you’ll want a tropical style drink that everyone can enjoy. Try an Island Dream. This drink is made by combining crushed ice, orange juice, pineapple juice, and Sprite. Don’t forget the umbrella to finish this drink off.

3. Another tropical cocktail that the whole family can enjoy is the orange burst cocktail. This is made by combining orange juice, Sprite, and grenadine syrup with crushed ice. Your children are sure to love this one.

4. Strawberry limeades are popular at some fast food restaurants. These would be a great alternative to alcoholic drinks. Of course, with this recipe requiring limes and strawberries, you may have to do some searching to find the ingredients.

5. New Year’s Eve punch is another great alternative to champagne. It is made with several different juices, fruit cocktail, sherbet, and sparkling grape juice.

6. Snowbird Mocktails are delicious. They’re made with pineapple juice, sweetened condensed milk, orange juice, coconut extract, and ginger ale. One of the nice things about this drink is that it keeps for up to one week.

7. Non-alcoholic (or virgin) margaritas are a popular drink and would be the perfect choice if you’re having a Mexican themed New Year’s Eve party. They could also be used for a winter beach party theme.

8. Another summertime drink that would be appropriate for New Year’s Eve is a virgin strawberry daiquiri. Strawberry daiquiri mix is added to Sprite and ice. To make the drink more festive, put fresh fruit on a plastic sword and put that in the drink.

9. If it’s really cold outside, it’s quite possible your guests would prefer something hot to drink instead. Hot spiced punch may be appreciated. It is made with pineapple juice, cranberry juice, all spice, cloves, cinnamon, water, and brown sugar.

10. Spiced punch may not appeal to you, but hot mulled cider may be just the thing. Similar to the spiced punch, hot mulled cider has all spice, cinnamon, and cloves. The main ingredient, however, is apple cider, which makes the taste different.

Everyone wants to enjoy a New Year’s Eve party, but it doesn’t have to include alcohol. By having non-alcoholic drinks at your party, these ten drink ideas are something the whole family will love.

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